Control...?

  We need the mechanism of what we refer to as "control" that comes from the brain organ and body workings in order to carry out simple and complex mechanical tasks such driving, riding a bike, using appliances, operating machinery etc..

  Emotional "control" is an idea from thought, made into a concept, given boundaries (in control, under control and out of control ) projected out as a behavior or situational measurement, perceived as a way to judge ourselves or others.

   The organs of the body such as the heart does all its work on its own without us ever needing to "control" it, as does all the organs. The brain too is an organ that allows thought to happen along with a gazillion other tasks, why would you think you could "control" the brain organ? Why would you think you can?