...The natural being that you are is boundless untethered infinite love unseparated from anything unseparated from anyone....simply there is no subject object reality.This is incomprehensible to the energies of separation as separation is bound by a subject object reality. There can be a resonate in hearing these words that is beyond a separate self individual me and it is here the dilemma begins searching for the ultimate desire to be free from the restricted energy of separation. The paradoxical contradiction is that the separate energy IS boundless untethered infinite love. The improvement of a better me often begins to shape itself in the seeking, cleaning and clearing patterns and habits for a more restful at ease life...this does not lead to the collapse of separation. There is no 'how to' to snuff out the energy of separation.
Know your infinitely lovable and rest with whatever appears (the best you can). Life has your back as there are no wrongs no rights no pressure to become anything! Love you just as you are!